Wednesday, August 6, 2008

REGRETS.. the end point??

do u remember time where life was much simpler???
i m trying hard to recall when mine was..
i think i am a young adult now trying to grapple with new issues in life.. quite tough
heard that we grow as we learn
do we do observational learning or do we try out something and let the older n supposedly the wiser ones turn around and say, 'i told u so.' Are we suppose to avoid those potential regrets and let it pass THEN maybe look back and regret in future or are we suppose to go out for it, taking that risk then if fail then regret? See!! either way it leads to regrets.... no wonder everyone will bound to hav some under their belt.. its like that mind map no matter wats the process taken, may eventually lead to the final sad truth-regret in one way or another. Is this why they always advise us to enjoy the process and not to be too focused on the result? in my idea, maybe.

oh well, being suddenly cynical.... why like that!!!



hmm coz life's like that??

1 comment:

Zhiyuan said...

Life's full of choices.. and there's never one that's correct for all. Some paths taken by the experienced may work for them in the past, but that doesn't guarantee smooth sailing success for us. Cos the situation is different, the way we approach things is different. So called listen to the "wiser one" can work in a way that we pick up whatever thing that we deem useful and don't repeat their mistakes..

Though personally, I believe in making my choice, avoid the mistakes that ppl have had made and no regrets. Choosing a path determined by myself guarantees that I'm responsible for my own actions and I'll do the upmost. Is there a risk that's always involved? Well.. how would u know your method is risky or successful?

Results is not all it matters. In any situation, there's always a learning point. Just whether we can sieve the impt info out of it. =)

Don't worry too much abt this. Just go with the flow. Do what you deem is right at the moment.